Here’s a list of things that I so WISH I had in front of me during that time. Most of these things I never even considered!
The Paper Chain Parenting Technique
I clearly had the right answer and could quickly remedy this situation.
How I was able to afford my house post-divorce
I remember reading lots of articles like this one online during the years that we went through our split. I expected to find an answer in one of them. And I didn’t. I also remember the day when I looked at the numbers and realized that the only answer that would give me peace was to buy out my ex.
Mid-life Crisis Book Recommendation: Miranda July’s All Fours
“Well, in life there are Parkers and there are Drivers”
The Best Way to Walk
This is dangerous! The voice in my head said. What would my mother, my kids, my ex-husband say? They would say I’m being irresponsible. What if they want to get ahold of me? What if I don’t make it back?
Reading: the thing that was missing from my self-care routine
I no longer had that book on my nightstand that tethered me to my own imagination and to a space in my world for fantasy.
Some Doctors No Longer Recommend Self Breast Exams, But You Should Still Touch Yourself Regularly. Here’s Why.
Please don’t wait a year to say something when you notice anything abnormal in your breasts.
You are Worth a Second Opinion
Second opinions are a pain, but the pain of not getting one could be worse.
The Thing I Almost Never Did Before My Divorce That I Do All the Time Now
in the first month after our divorce I quickly realized that I was spending more time alone in my house than I ever had when we were married
The Best Decision I Made Post-Divorce
I like to say that she’s my third redhead, and I firmly believe that she is one of the things that saved my life after divorce.
